The Signs of A Cheating Boyfriend You Don't Want to Overlook

Did you ever discover something that you wish you hadn't? This is the same reason many women know in their hearts they've been cheated on, but remain in denial. They've seen the signs of cheating boyfriend but refuse to truly notice them.

In this world of uncertainty and the recent precipitous dive in "family values", a cheater can find refuge in the anonymity of numbers. Shocking numbers!

Statistically the average relationship has about a 50% chance of infidelity. Does this seem too high? Originally I thought so. But then again, I also realized I was in a small minority of people who actually do something about it.

Okay, you're doing research on this topic so you're already ahead of the game. This means you are among the small group of women who have the courage and dignity to do something about your situation. You've seen the signs of a cheating boyfriend and you decided to do something about it. This means that you are willing to take action and initiative, the power to take your life into your own hands and be happy for once.

Like military snipers will tell you; sometimes the hardest targets to see are right in front of you. The same holds true for a woman in our situation. We know it's there we just can't see it. Eventually, we lose sight and then everything just blends in and gets out of focus.

We often tend to worry about things for long periods of time waiting to take action. We often don't know what we're waiting for. We wait so long that each day that passes only increases the anxiety and the fear of the unknown.

TAKE CHARGE! This is the only life you get. You have the power (at least you did at one time). Take control again, regain your confidence and begin living your life again.

- "Hmmm...Honey, you know I am not one of those controlling girlfriends, but uuhh...where have you been!?! It 6 o'clock in the morning!" This is one of the more obvious signs of a cheating boyfriend, but one that is overlooked many...many times.

- Your once raging sex life has all but completely disappeared.

- Does he have a history of cheating? You thought he would change for you didn't you? 99% chance, he never will change and will always be a cheater.

- Is eye contact becoming a scarcity? The guilt can play tricks on a guys mind, enough so where he acts over confident, but yet can't seem to look you in the eye.

- You have short brown hair, but you keep finding long blond hair on your boyfriends shirt, car, pantsetc.

- Paper Trail. Yes, conduct this step "Watergate Style". Have you noticed any recent purchases from your favorite jewelry store, waited as all of the relevant gift giving holidays have passed and no gift?

- How about that email account? Better yet how about that computer? Anything look different? Cleaned up? Locked? Questionable MySpace surprises? Just got that intuition us women often get?

- Ah yes, The ever so popular cell phone! Any new trends in his usage or lack thereof? How about texting, or vibrating ringer. How about not answering calls? Out of all the signs of a cheating boyfriend, this is one of the easiest to pick up on and get proof of infidelity.

- Do you find inconsistency in his stories and his friend's stories. Men aren't the best at communicating to begin with, try getting them to tell the same lie in perfect unison.

- Do you feel like you are trying to preserve something and constantly chasing a fading memory of happiness? Has everything changed? It is always possible your man has evolved into an even bigger jackass and there is nothing else to it! On the other hand maybe there is!! In either case, signs of a cheating boyfriend or not, it's time to move on.

Remember, we still have to build a solid case before we make any attempt at questioning your suspected cheating boyfriend. This will only hurt our chances of gathering concrete evidence! As women, we often think we have plenty of evidence, yet since we cannot predict how our suspected boyfriend will answer, we must be prepared to answer his every excuse with a fact. Remember, he can't deny anything, once you have solid proof!

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Now that you have analyzed the signs of a cheating boyfriend, you have to ask your self what can I do to find evidence?

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