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5 Signs Your Partner Is Cheating

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If you think your husband might be cheating, give him all the rope he needs to hang himself with conflict. In other words let him make the mistakes that you know he is going to make, don't accuse until you have sufficient proof. The rate of infidelity is rising, so below are some of the top signs that you should look out for to check your cheating partner.

1. A large majority of cheaters will do so in their own beds at some point during a relationship. If you think your partner may have cheated on you in your own bed, or may still be doing it, here is a good tip. Make your bed in a particular way that is different from the normal way you do it, if your husband has been using at he will have made it afterwards, and you will be able to tell.

2. Enlist one of your girlfriends to help. Make sure it is one that he doesn't know, then get her to hit on him and have her record it. The easiest way to do this is to have her call you answering service just before she starts talking to him, and then you can have the proof on call so to speak.

3. Your husband will definitely take advantage if he is left alone for a weekend. So to set another trap tell him that you will be away all weekend, give him precise times for when you are leaving and when you will be back. Then say goodbye and find a good spot where you'll be able to watch your house, all you have to do now is wait and see.

4. It is important that you keep an eye on all your husband's financial transactions. This includes ATM withdrawals, receipts, and credit card statements, keep an eye out for any unusual transactions. You may be lucky and find some obvious evidence such as motel room receipts, or a jeweller's receipts, although you have not had any new jewellery recently. Your husband may be cleverer than this, and could be using cash to buy gifts or pay for things for his new lover. He may give himself away though if he is withdrawing the same sum of money at the same time every week or month, which he will be using to pay for a motel room.

5. Monitor both his cell phone and your home phone. If you have access to his cell phone bill, watch for repeated calls or calls of long duration and the times. Watch how he uses his phone, does he answer it then move out of your earshot, does he take it everywhere with him, including the bathroom. Note whether returned calls to you are extremely delayed without verified reasons, or if he always turns off his cell phone when he's with you.

If, after all this you still do not have sufficient evidence to confront your husband, you can try bluffing him. Say something along the lines of, I know what you've been doing and I'll give you one last chance to confess and tell me everything. You may find that he will break down and give you all the information you want, but he will more than likely lie to the end.

I can guarantee you that he will screw up at some point, you may need to be more patient, but stay watchful. You could go out and hire a private investigator, however, this is often expensive and there is still a chance that your husband is not cheating. I advise you to follow the above steps and keep rigorous notes of your findings.

About the Author

Pauline Stradlen works as a Private Investigator and runs a website for people who think they might be in a cheating relationship. To track your partners phone calls visit http://www.answersabc.com